Gladys Sands
| Gladys Sands | |
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| née Smith; "Glam Gram"/"Glam Gran"; "GG" | |
| Born | 1923-11-02 Winnipeg, Manitoba |
| Died | 2026-08-25 Cochrane, Alberta |
| Occupation | Singer, dancer, musician |
| Father | |
| Mother | |
| Partner | |
| Children | |
Gladys Sands (nee Smith) (2 November 1923 – 25 August 2026 (aged 102)) was a Canadian singer, dancer, and musician. Born in Winnipeg, Manitoba, she was a professional singer between the ages of 15 and 22, performing with the Great Lakes Girls' Orchestra out of Fort William, Ontario and on live radio. In 1940, she was personally selected by Benny Goodman to join his band after his singer Martha Tilton fell ill — but her widowed father refused permission. The singer Goodman chose in her place was Peggy Lee. [3,4]
Known as "Glam Gram"/"Glam Gran" or "GG" to her grandchildren, Sands returned to performing after retirement at age 65 and continued singing until 96. [1988 to 2019] [3,5]
Childhood in Winnipeg
Gladys Smith was born on 2 November 1923 at her family's home in Winnipeg, the daughter of Winnifred Currie and Charles Albert "Frank" Smith. [10] At age three, in 1926, she was struck by a Winnipeg Transit streetcar; her three-day stay at Winnipeg General Hospital was covered daily in the Winnipeg newspapers, and the attending doctor advised her mother to enrol her in music lessons as part of her recovery. [10]
As a child she took piano, ballet, tap, highland dance, and singing lessons. Her first public performance came in 1927, when four-year-old Gladys sang "Side by Side" at the Royal Alexandra Hotel, accompanied on piano by her older brother, Elgin Smith. She entertained regularly after that with the "Winnipeg Kiddies." [3,10]
She speaks fondly of Winnipeg for enriching lives with theatre, music, opera, and ballet by providing subsidized tickets for low-income families and school children during the Depression. [3]
Her father worked for the CPR, and her grandfather had worked for the CNR. [8]
Fort William and the Great Lakes Girls' Orchestra
Gladys moved to Fort William, Ontario, where she sang with Maurice Jackson's Great Lakes Girls' Orchestra, a twenty-piece jazz band that toured across Canada and the Northern United States in a bus. She also worked in Maurice Jackson's Music Shop and sang live with the "Sunrise Serenaders" on CKPR radio, one of three performers on the show. [3,4]
Amelia Jackson, Maurice's wife, was also on the road with the orchestra during this period. Like others who knew Amelia, Gladys describes her as "strict and exacting," a quality she admired in Amelia and in all her instructors thereafter. [5]
At age 15, she sang "Somewhere Over The Rainbow" in her audition for Joe Turner — a Lakehead-based big band leader (not the American blues singer of the same name) — beating forty-nine other candidates. This audition presumably took place during the 3-month window between The Wizard of Oz's theatrical premiere in August 1939, and Gladys' 16th birthday in November 1939. [3,8] Judy Garland was just one year older than Gladys, born June 1922. As Joe Turner's lead singer, she performed weekly at the Prince Arthur Hotel in Port Arthur. [10]
The orchestra toured during summer holidays. Gladys recalls the experience as both fun and grueling. [8]
The Benny Goodman encounter
In 1940, while rehearsing on one side of a rotating stage in London, Ontario with the Great Lakes Girls' Orchestra, Gladys encountered Benny Goodman, who was rehearsing on the other side. His singer, Martha Tilton, was ill, and hearing Gladys on the other side of the stage, he stormed over and roared, "Why is my singer singing with your band?" Gladys looked at him and said, "I'm not your singer." [3]
Goodman was surprised and confused, but impressed enough to ask her to audition the next day. When she sang "I Should Care" for him, he immediately offered her a job touring with his orchestra. She was seventeen years old and her widowed father would not allow her to go. She turned down the job and never regretted it — she did not enjoy being on the road surrounded entirely by men. The Benny Goodman Band continued their tour and picked up a new singer when they got to Chicago. Her name was Peggy Lee, though Gladys never met her. [3,4,8]
Note: The Silver Stars Facebook biography [3] states that Gladys sang "I Should Care" for Goodman, but that song was not published until 1944, four years after the encounter. The actual song she sang is unknown.
During the Second World War, Gladys continued to tour across Canada and the northern United States with the Great Lakes Girls' Orchestra, entertaining troops from British Columbia to Nova Scotia; she crossed Canada six times in all. [10]
Marriage and family
Gladys met her future husband, Jim Sands, at church when they were young, and again as teenagers at the Rollercade in Fort William, where Jim worked and "always wanted to do up her skates." They kept in touch throughout the Second World War, and when Jim was on leave he would come hear her sing. [8]
After the war they married in Fort William, on 7 February 1946, and moved to the small town of Hudson, Ontario (population 389). Jim worked for Cochrane and Dunlop as a salesman, traveling to mining camps north of Hudson to take orders, then returning to Hudson to fill them. Gladys spent her days hauling water, chopping wood, and occasionally fending off bears that wandered into the kitchen. They lived there for 8 years. [8,10]
Gladys gave up professional singing and started a family. Her two daughters were named after popular singers of the time: Patti (after Patti Page) and Judy (after Judy Garland). In 1953 the family moved to Calgary, where Jim took a sales job with Evens Engineering selling Pella windows — a connection he had made through Ted, whom he had known in Hudson. There, Gladys had a son, Jim Sands, named after his father, born in 1956. [3,8,10]
Jim Sands was a member of the Rotary Club, which staged annual performances that Gladys would participate in, alongside performance nights for the Calgary Housebuilders' Association. Gladys also conducted the Children's Choir at Riverview United Church and sang in local radio commercials. He loved music, and there was always a record on the record player in the family's living room in the evening. Among Gladys' favourite singers were Ella Fitzgerald, Patti Page, Judy Garland, Louis Prima & Keely Smith, and Lena Horne. [8,10]
Jim died in 1987. Gladys wrote in the Calgary Herald that year "Cards of Thanks - I Wish to Express Sincere Gratitude to My Many Friends for the Flowers, Cards Received at the Recent Passing of My Husband James. Thank You to No. 1 Legion for All of Their Help and a Special Thank You to Ai, Christiaens and Dorothy Bowan Who Helped Me Through the Difficult Times. - Gladys Sands." Calgary Herald, Monday, April 6, 1987
Calgary career
In Calgary, Sands held a series of retail and management positions, including at Woodward's, MacKenzie Jewellers, and the gift shop at the top of the Husky Tower (now the Calgary Tower) when it opened in 1968. She managed several apartment complexes in Calgary before becoming the manager of O'Neil Tower, a 28-floor residential building with pool and tennis court built in 1967 in downtown Calgary. O'Neil Tower was her final job; she retired in 1988. [4,8]
In the 1960s, while working in the shoe department at Woodward's department store at Chinook Centre, Sands mentored a young co-worker — a member of the rock group The Stampeders — on stage presence and singing. [10]
In 1988, while managing O'Neil Tower, Sands chased off two knife-wielding robbers who were attempting to steal nearly $45,000 in rent money, prompting a newspaper headline calling her a "Gutsy Granny." Her boss at the time called her "tough as nails." [10]
Return to performing
On her 65th birthday, she left the working world behind and refocused on her music. "Even in my 40s and 50s, I knew I'd still be up on stage performing after I retired," she told Avenue Calgary in 2017. "Music has always been a part of me and that's why I'm still doing it. It's almost like I'm addicted to music." [4]
Sands also plays guitar and piano. After retiring she joined several performance groups: the Grande Ol' Follies, the Seniors Performing Arts Group, and the Silver Stars Musical Revue Society, "always brightening the show with her beautiful voice, sparkling stage presence, beautiful gowns and outstanding costumes." [3,4]
Silver Stars Musical Revue Society
Sands joined the Silver Stars Musical Revue Society, a seniors-only musical theatre group in Calgary that has been running since 1998. By 2017 she had been singing with the Silver Stars for 12 years and was the group's oldest active member. [4]
In 2016, at age 92, she and fellow member Jean Mekitiak (23 June 1923 - 26 January 2026), also 92, and also died at age 102, were still performing. A Calgary Herald profile noted that Gladys used a walker to get around, "but when it's time to go on stage to sing, they toss them aside. That's what veteran entertainers they are." [6]
On 13 May 2017, Silver Stars put on a show, where she sang "The West, a Nest, and You, Dear" at age 94. [9]
Her philosophy is simple: "Music is my life. And I'm not slowing down until I'm dead!" [4]
Big Band music of the Thirties and Forties provided the soundtrack to her life, and at ninety her biggest pleasure was being invited to sing the songs she knew so well — and telling the story of turning down Benny Goodman. [3]
Her last performance was with the Silver Stars Musical Revue in December 2019, capping a performing career that spanned every decade from the 1920s to the 2010s. [10]
Reflections on Jazz
Gladys does not consider Jazz to be out of fashion — only that newer music tends to appeal to younger audiences. When she was young, her own parents disliked Jazz and Big Band music because they had grown up in a different era; in turn, when her own children were listening to rock and roll, she did not particularly care for it either. [8]
Dancing
Sands was a lifelong dancer as well as a singer. She tap danced well into her 80s, only stopping when a bad knee became too problematic. She refused knee replacement surgery, saying she "didn't have time for that." [5]
Later life
In the 1990s, Sands revisited the Royal Alexandra Hotel Tea Room — the site of her first public performance at age four — after it was rebuilt as part of what is now the Cranbrook History Centre in Cranbrook, British Columbia, where her daughter Judith Blakley lives. [10]
She continued singing until age 96, when a broken hip required her to move into a care facility. In 2020 she moved into the Hawthorne Senior Living Community in Cochrane, Alberta, where she lived until her death. She had dementia affecting her short-term memory, though her long-term memory remained relatively intact. [5,8,10]
Death
Gladys Sands died on 25 August 2026 at the Hawthorne Senior Living Community in Cochrane, Alberta, at age 102. [10]
A celebration of life was held on 14 September 2026 at McInnis & Holloway Crowfoot Chapel in Calgary. [10]
Family
Children:
- Patricia "Patti" Dawkins (named after Patti Page), of Calgary, Alberta; married to Robert. [10]
- Judith "Judy" Blakley (named after Judy Garland), of Cranbrook, British Columbia; predeceased by her husband, George. [10]
- Jim Sands (named after his father), born 1956, of Vancouver, British Columbia. [10]
Grandchildren:
- Jay Blakley (wife Lindsey), of DeWinton, Alberta.
- Patricia "Trish" Blakley (husband Steve), of Kimberley, British Columbia.
- Nigel Dawkins (wife Nicole), of Calgary, Alberta.
- Amber Dawkins (husband Dan), of Dundas, Ontario.
[10]
Great-grandchildren: Nova Dawkins and Iver Dawkins. [10]
Predeceased by her husband, James Sands (died 1987), and by Ron Quintin (died 1999). [10]
See also
- Amelia Jackson
- Maurice Jackson
- Dance Centre of Northwestern Ontario
- Fort William Girls Military Band
Sources
[1] "The Jacksons of Fort William", by Harvey L. Smyth. In the Brodie Special Collections.
[2] "Fort William Girls Military Band" website, by William "Bill" Drew [1]
[3] Silver Stars Calgary Facebook page biography, November 2016. Written by Patricia Dawkins. [2]
[4] "Meet 4 Inspiring Calgary Retirees." Avenue Calgary, 12 May 2017. [3]
[5] Patricia Dawkins (daughter of Gladys Sands), personal communication, March 2020.
[6] Hobson, Louis B. "Ageless entertainers sing and dance for Silver Stars Musical Revue Society." Calgary Herald, 10 May 2016. [4]
[7] https://www.facebook.com/photo/?fbid=10164901709770393&set=a.10156236919275393
[8] Email correspondence with Patricia Dawkins, 5 May 2026.
[9] Gladys Sands sings "The West, a Nest, and You, Dear", 2017. [5]
[10] "The Remarkable Gladys Sands (1923-2026)", obituary shared by Jim Sands, Facebook, September 2026. [6]